When asked for advice the Prophet (sas) repeated “Don’t be angry”. To control anger is very difficult but can be learned slowly. There are only two reasons for righteous anger, to help the oppressed and to defend Allāh’s order. S. Abū Bakr was an example of this.
Don't Reply to the Ignorant
Jun16 2016 Turkish 9min
If you like to be happy, keep your tongue. Don’t reply to the ignorant. To reply is to descend to their level. Only the Shaykh and the Awliyā’ can speak.