“Allāh guides whom He wills” (28:56). Most people want to guide their loved ones to the right path. If Allāh ﷻ wills, it happens. If not, no matter how hard you try it doesn't work. Some people try to attract people by showing things, that aren't in Islām. No need, just be gentle, make it easy and not difficult. Do not mix Islām with other things. Show them the way of mercy. The gentle, sweet way Mawlānā taught us. Only show them the right way. The way of the Prophet ﷺ.